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Turning forty means reaching a milestone in your life of maturity, confidence, certainty, tolerance, wisdom, and grace.

Enjoy your life as a military wife and mom and remember to keep the woman inside of you alive and healthy

Having lived in this beautiful state for three years, I can honestly say that I miss living in Alaska.  The awesome beauty that surrounds you each and every day is something you just have to experience for yourself. One day, I’ll share our family’s 22 day, five hour and 30 minute journey from Maryland to Alaska.  [...]

10 Things to know about Military Retirement Retirement from the military is a time of celebration and great accomplishment, so, I want to share with you 10 Things I learned personally about Military Retirement: 1:  Retirement from the military is a fabulous accomplishment and one that should not be taken lightly, so take time with [...]

5 tips for coping with a long-term military separation 1.Cry and get it out of your system 2.Find ways to channel your energies in a positive light: – take college courses – attend self-development workshops and seminars – take care of yourself and your health – write letters to your soldier (the old fashion way [...]