About Me

I’m Victoria M. Parham, but please, call me Victoria.  Thank you for stopping by to connect.  So, you wanna learn more about me, hey?  Well, grab your favorite beverage, have a seat, and let’s get acquainted.

I’m a Motivational Life Coach for Women who Dare to Dream Bigger – I meet women where they are in their lives (good or bad) and I help guide them through the process of achieving a specific Life Goal(s).  There you have it, the really cool, pretty version of what I do.

Now there is much more to me than just being a Motivational Life Coach, so keep reading to learn how I arrived to this place in my life.

A bit of History:

I was born and raised in Newark, New Jersey to Harold & Helen Mitchell.  My mom was a nurse and daddy, he was a Jazz musician (trumpet player who played with some of the legends, Sassy Sarah Vaughn, Duke Ellington, Ella Fitzgerald, Dizzy Gillespie, and, countless others).

Immediately upon graduating high school, I decided to skip college and instead, I joined the United States Military (Army).   I spent much of my career overseas in Europe, where I met and married the love of my life – Dre.   Within a year, I became an Army wife, Veteran, and mother.  Instantly my life was changed.

The reality of the military lifestyle soon reared its ugly head.  As much as I tried to establish a career of my own, I was unsuccessful due to frequent relocation’s, economics, and, geography.

Fueled by frustration and anger, I began my quest to design a portable career that would be conducive to my new life as an Army spouse.

For the past two decades, I’ve held numerous job titles: consultant, resume writer, blogger, virtual assistant, chief technology officer, facilitator/trainer, podcast talk show host, federal government contractor, and, most recently {Motivational Life Coach}.  Of all the roles, I’ve managed over the years, I’m most proud of my role as mommy & wife.


My Strongest Attributes:

Listener – the greatest gift you can give is your time and ear.

Entrepreneurial Spirit – I believe in self-empowerment and self-sufficiency.

Persistence – people who succeed & win – do so – because they never quit.

Visionary – your life is bigger than your experiences – stay focused.


What I love most about Life Coaching is: watching clients transition from being powerless to becoming Empowered over every aspect of their life.  I am humbled and honored to be a part of that transitional experience.


10 FUN Facts about me + 1 Freebie fact!

What I know for sure is: God is in Control of Everything.

Zodiac sign is Aquarius.

Fav color is Black.

Dogs are my fav animals.

I’m an Army Veteran – Married to an Army Retiree.

I lived in Anchorage, Alaska (49th State) for three years, loved it!

I’ve been fired from one job in my life, yep – it happened.

My favorite piece of technology, I can’t live without is my Galaxy Note :).

Born & raised in the city, prefer Country Living.

My longest road trip ever lasted 22 days, 5 hours, and 30 minutes.

Freebie Fact – My fondest childhood memory,  Michael Jackson concert at the Meadowlands.

Thank you for taking a few moments to learn more about me.  If you feel a connection and are interested in working with me, schedule a free 30 minute consult and let’s chat.


Overview of Experience and Qualifications

Highly dedicated self employed entrepreneur with extensive virtual administrative staffing support, training, coaching, and project management background.  Successfully launched and operated an online administrative staffing, virtual careers training, and consulting firm for 10 years, to include, competing and winning major state and federal government training contracts for 6 consecutive years.  Secured language interpretation projects for the Alaska Public Defender’s Office and The Iditarod.  Trained, coached, and mentored military spouses on How to Start, Grow, and, Manage an Online Virtual Business in CyberSpace, a portable careers training initiative with the Small Business Administration, operated under a Department of Defense Contract.

Current Customized Services

Life Coaching 1-on-1.

Growth & Development Online Courses.

Portable Careers Training Solutions.

Career & Life Strategy Planning.

Dream Bigger Motivation & Inspiration eStore.









Client Roster

Take a look at some of the clients I've worked with over the years.